Posts Tagged ‘friends’
My good friend Aliza Sherman has a great post over on Web Worker Daily about the evolution of the blogger relations model.
The model of “blogger relations” is one that is constantly evolving. I think that both sides are learning what works best for them.
Ideally, the relationship is symbiotic. We pitch, they write. Our clients are happy, their audience is happy.
I think that by bringing up alternative ways to engage bloggers shows a couple of issues at work. First is the blogger vs. journalist argument. Sponsored posts and such don’t work for the bloggers that are considered journalists. Being mindful of that, there are still creative ways to engage. Take the “media tour” of old. Instead of setting up in a metro daily’s conference room, we are bringing clients to coffee shops, neighborhood haunts and home offices to chat with this new era of influencer.
But there’s still room for the “traditional” model. Working with people who blog as part of a news reporting organization (news paper, online media etc…) The goal is to drive coverage for our clients while providing elements that are genuinely “newsworthy.” (what passes for newsworthy is another discussion) We can do so by engaging in a genuine conversation with our pub targets. My advice? I think a solid model looks something like this if you’re able to do it:
- Obviously knowing your target is job one. Make sure they’re appropriate. If you have doubts, imagine what they’ll feel.
- The difference between “please write about this” and “I would love to hear more about what you’re working on and how this can fit in” is huge.
- Keep the relationship professional. This is hard. We know when our reporters get married, get fired or get scooped. But I think it’s important to keep the focus on the client and what your outreach brings to the table.
- Be brief. Be right. Be gone. Keep your outreach focused and to the point.
So, what do you think? How is this model changing and how are we changing with it?
Tags: blogger, ethics, friends, Pitching, PR Tips
Twitter has fundamentally changed our lives, whether we like it or not.
And people have written miles of books, blog posts and even tweets about best practices and what matters on Twitter. One of the biggest things that is almost universally agreed upon is to be genuine. So how do we as public relations professionals remain genuine when we’re asked to tweet about a client?
The precedent
Fundamentally you are free to talk about whatever the hell you want with your Twitter stream. It’s your content. It’s your copyright. It’s your reputation.
Your reputation? Yeah, your reputation. You put it on the line each and every time you post something to the public domain. When I hit publish on this post, I was subjecting myself to the judgment of past, present and future employers. It’s the same thing with Twitter.
If your precedent is to include links to client announcements or blog posts, then that’s fine. You’ve willingly shared that information. After all, without clients we wouldn’t be able to pay the electric bill so we could tweet, right? There is a conception that all posts in a social network should be neutral and objective. If you have a relationship, some feel it should be disclosed either up front or by using hash tags or other microsyntax. For example, James Governor from the analyst firm Redmonk uses “$client” to denote posts to his Twitter stream about his paying clients.
And that’s a judgement call you will have to make.
But what about when your employer says you must tweet on a client’s behalf?
Mandated tweeting
I see a potential for conflict when an employer mandates that an employee tweet on its behalf. Making a choice to share the announcement of a project you’ve worked on or a blog post from a co-worker is one thing.
Being told what to tweet and when to tweet it is another beast. The argument is that it’s not genuine. If you don’t want to post it, then why should you be obligated to? I’m all for being a team player. But sometimes you need to protect the community and precedent you have created. I don’t know what the right answer is. So, I’m asking you.
How would you respond to being given a pre-written tweet and being asked to post it? Would you? Why or why not?
Tags: best practices, failure, friends, genuine, Sincere, social media
Disclaimer, I adapted this from my blog for Etelos, as one of our executives will be speaking there.
Do you know what South by Southwest is? Sure, it’s a great music festival, but did you know it is also one of the best tech conferences around?
SXSW Interactive is a compilation of some super quality speakers and panels as well as some of the best networking (read: parties) around. It is by far one of the best events I’ve attended.
Loading…This year’s event, however, has a different appeal for me. I was able to secure a pretty powerful panel for Etelos founder & CEO Danny Kolke. OpenID, OAuth, Data Portability and the Enterprise will explore the challenges enterprise class companies face over data ownership.
Featuring Joseph Smarr from Plaxo, Kaliya Hamlin, AKA “Identitywoman” and Bob Blakely from the Burton Group will join Danny to discuss if OpenID and OAuth are good for the enterprise and how to implement them.
Shifting the focus
I think this will be an excellent topic for this year’s event. Layoffs are piling up, mandatory furloughs are being enforced and startups are folding. As the emphasis shifts from true innovation to a successful business model, the debate over identity and data ownership becomes essential.
A prospect or sales lead is an invaluable commodity, and this is even more true in today’s economic climate. But who owns that relationship? Who owns that customer’s contact information?
Meetup Tweetup Restup
Lots of exciting parties have already been announced and dozens more will undoubtedly pop up as March approaches. I have an awesome idea for a smaller, more intimate meetup opportunity if anybody is looking for an opportunity to host something.
I look forward to meeting you all out there and discussing some public relations goodies. As an extra bonus, Kaliya is organizing a lunch that will follow the panel. Come, join us there too!
I’m in the process of building up a schedule, but I want to get your input. What sessions have you excited? What speakers must you see? What parties are already on your list? Fill out the handy-dandy form or post a comment.
Tags: Add new tag, conversation, Enterprise, friends, Kolke, OAuth, OpenID, party, relationships, revenue, socialmedia, SXSW
When was the last time you made a true, genuine friend. Not a business contact, not a lead, but a true, genuine, bail you out kind of friend?
Social media has created great opportunities for us to meet, interact and connect with scores of new people. But very rarely do we meet new friends. Let’s start by defining a friend. I found a Ralph Waldo Emerson quote, “It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them.” But I want to go a bit further. Here’s how I’ve defined a friendship:
A friend is a person that you can share emotions with, share a meal with and share a memory with. A friend invites two-way communication and is not a one-sided relationship. A friend has earned your respect and a friend will be there when you need him or her.
Making friends
I’m curious how you make friends. As a society, our social skills are shifting online. People’s popularity is determined by the number of Myspace friends or the number of followers on Twitter. But we still are wired to crave human interaction. And that’s where friends come in to play.
Making friends is incredibly difficult as you get older. As geeks, we love heading to meetups, Tweetups and drinkups. That’s a sociological behavior. We are able to congregate due to a common interest. In fact, an article from the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Administration says “To meet new people who might become your friends, you have to go to places where others are gathered.”
But it’s hard to begin a friendship by exchanging business cards. These networking gatherings are just that — networking. Making a true friend is a challenge.
Keeping friends
I don’t mean to say that it inpossible to make new, true friends. In fact, I have made connections that I am beginning to consider friends. But how do you keep them, how do you transition from contact to friendship. I think it all begins with that skill most of us have: communication.
All of these tools can now be used as a friendship building device. Send somebody a DM on Twitter to meetup for coffee. Create an event on Facebook and invite people to your house for a wine tasting. See, social media CAN be used for good.
I would love to know what you think about this and how you make and keep friends.
Tags: friends, networking, relationships